Stress and anxiety are a part of almost everyone's life, especially entrepreneurs and those who operate in fast-moving industries or run high-pressure businesses. Some of us feed into this anxiety and stress, making the situation even worse, and preventing ourselves from recovering quickly. And when stress becomes chronic, it can lead to any one of a number of life-threatening diseases.
Things like time pressure and the demand for perfection are a couple of the most common stressors. But there's a solution for anyone who has to deal with this issue: Having a mind-body intervention will create what experts call a relaxation response. When you learn to relax your body and quiet your mind, you can easily and quickly return to your center, empowering yourself to act with clarity and intention.
What is your center? It is the emotional state where you feel comfortable, relaxed and able to take on anything that comes your way.
Think of anxiety as a car.
This is my favorite analogy to explain the need to center yourself: Envision your day as a car that rests on top of the highest hill in San Francisco. At the beginning of the day, if you find your center, whether through meditation, yoga, a morning ritual, repeating a mantra or some other spiritual means, all it takes is one finger to hold that car at the top of the hill.
The minute the car, due to some stressor or anxiety, starts rolling down the hill, gaining momentum and "getting away from you," it takes more and more force to get it back to the top of the hill. Therefore, the easiest way to stay centered is to act immediately, right before your car starts to roll down the hill, using your preferred strategy to get back to center, so that you can hold your car on the hill with just one finger.
Stress your health.
The myriad negative health aspects that come with stress and anxiety are well-known. But sometimes we fail to consider the long-term impact that a contentious mindset can have. In 2012, a study published in The Lancet found that excess work stress increases the risk of a heart attack by 23 percent. Another study from researchers at the University of Sydney in Australia found that periods of intense anger and anxiety can increase the risk of a heart attack by nearly nine times.
If you learn a method to help you to get back to center, it'll be a significant investment in yourself, your health and your future. Employees who are overly anxious are much more likely to miss work, which puts additional stress on themselves and those around them, creating a vicious cycle, that demands intervention.
Mind your mental health.
Just as important as the physical effects are the negative cognitive aspects of anxiety. Stress not only robs us of clarity, balance and focus, it also impairs our decision-making process. Without a clear mind, you are much less productive. When you are not at center, you react instead of acting with intention.
To demonstrate this difference, and the effects on productivity when it comes to acting and reacting, I like to give the example of a martial arts master who sits in the center of a circle and faces off against 12 other opponents. As he defends himself, it may look like he's reacting to each one. In actuality, he's fending off an attacker, then immediately getting back to center. He defeats another attacker, instantly gets back to center again, continuing until there are no more challenges. This fantastic defense strategy against attacks is only possible because the martial artist has perfected a relaxation response.
Find your center.
In other words, when you are attacked, whether it's from your own attacking thoughts or an action toward you from another, it's much more effective to take an action that helps you get back to center before you respond, verbally and/or physically. In the case of the latter, sometimes just walking away with a smile on your face is the most formidable move.
In order to live your best life, you need to reduce your stress. To reduce your stress, you need to be able to quickly get back to center. Whenever you feel yourself slipping into the anxiety zone, switch your focus to getting back to center. Anytime you feel your negative emotions rise, instead of lashing out, go inward and get back to center.
Do yourself a big favor: Find and practice your preferred method to quickly return to center. Do so and you'll always be of sound mind and body as you navigate each day of your life.
A version of this article appeared on entrepreneur.com, posted on July 24, 2018
ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
David Meltzer is the CEO of Sports 1 Marketing, a firm he founded with Warren Moon. Meltzer is a public speaker and author of the bestsellers Connected To Goodness and Compassionate Capitalism. He was honored by Variety as “Sports Humanitarian of the Year” and is a recipient of the Ellis Island Medal of Honor.
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